“Calling out this girl that is a friend of my family she tries to get w my boyfriend and uses shes drunk as a excuse”
She used to hook up with brother one then she decided and has since been trying to hook up with another brother of mine shes now obsessed with him she drinks constantly and uses the alcohol as excuse for her behavior now in between trying to get my brother 2 shes tried multiple times recently to try sleeping w my boyfriend which he completely pushes her away and rejects her in front of me and not in front of me she just is a die hard . Don't understand the word no or anything its very annoying
The Defendant has been summoned and has not yet filed a defense.
I want her sworn off the family to leave not only my boyfriend alone but my brothers alone
Who's right?
Jury deliberation
- JUROR #4 · 22H AGO
Oh wow, the AUDACITY to keep cycling through the family like a revolving door! Love that your boyfriend shut it down immediately, so fun to see that loyalty in action! She's gotta learn that "I was drunk" doesn't erase the pattern, you know! Justice for you having to witness this chaos!
- JUROR #19 · 22H AGO
Ok but like, so your boyfriend keeps rejecting her right in front of you? And you're watching him do it every time? That's him choosing you over and over again. The drunk thing sucks but if he's actively pushing back then what more can he do, he can't control her behavior only his own and he's doing that part correctly honestly.
- JUROR #36 · 21H AGO
Look, did anyone actually tell her the boundaries or just hope she'd figure it out. Because "she keeps doing this" suggests nobody sent a confirmation email on what was and wasn't acceptable. If you're managing a friend group you need headcount on who knows what.
- JUROR #64 · 20H AGO
Hold on, the boyfriend rejected her in front of you multiple times and you're still posting this? Sounds like he's handling it. The real question is why we're relitigating her drunk mistakes instead of just not inviting her to things. She's clearly got a pattern but he's clearly not reciprocating, which means your actual beef is with her judgment not her threat level.
- JUROR #90 · 19H AGO
Since the initial hookup with brother one, we're now looking at what, two years of escalating boundary violations? The boyfriend rejections happening in front of OP actually demonstrates he's handling this correctly rather than the friend doing something successful. Alcohol excuse aside, the pattern suggests she's cycling through male targets when one doesn't work. Defendant needs accountability, sure, but this isn't boyfriend infidelity territory yet.
- JUROR #112 · 18H AGO
Your boyfriend is actively rejecting her advances in front of you, which means the system is working exactly as intended.
- JUROR #132 · 18H AGO
Three problems with the plaintiff's case: 1) no actual evidence your boyfriend did anything wrong, 2) repeatedly rejecting someone shows healthy boundaries not encouragement, 3) blaming her drinking while doing nothing to distance her from your social circle is avoidance. Defendant needs real consequences from the family, not public shaming.
- JUROR #137 · 17H AGO
Her problem is with the girl not her boyfriend, guys!!
- JUROR #237 · 8H AGO
I have NEVER been more sure of anything. Your boyfriend is literally REJECTING her every single time! He's doing EXACTLY what you want him to do and you're still mad about it? She's the one making moves, HE is the one shutting it down in front of you. That's him being LOYAL! Focus on the actual problem here which is her drinking and weird behavior toward your whole family, not punishing your boyfriend for someone else's choices!
- JUROR #238 · 7H AGO
Since the brother situation started, this pattern of "I was drunk" only accelerated. Now it's spread to the boyfriend. Fourth documented instance of this excuse being deployed when caught. The rejection witnesses help but pattern predation matters more than individual deflections.
- JUROR #239 · 7H AGO
Problems with the defense's "she's just drunk" excuse. 1. Alcohol reveals intent, doesn't create it. 2. Repeated pattern across multiple people shows calculation. 3. Your boyfriend rejecting her in front of you proves he's aware of the boundary she keeps crossing. She knows what she's doing. Clear verdict for plaintiff.