“My girlfriend is a miser”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #4 · 6H AGO

  okay WAIT she literally VACATIONED while you're out here waiting for her to spot you five bucks for a ride home?? that's not being frugal that's just... selective?? the AUDACITY to have travel money but not "help your partner get places" money... i'm sorry NO

• JUROR #14 · 6H AGO

  If you can't figure out the difference between saving for a trip and funding your transportation, that's a you problem.

• JUROR #22 · 5H AGO

  What I'm noticing is the plaintiff is deflecting from the actual financial dynamic here. If she's funding her own travel, that's separate from her spending choices with shared resources. I want to name that conflating personal autonomy with obligation to fund his transportation.

• JUROR #32 · 4H AGO

  Hold up, did you ask her for the Uber money or did you just expect her to read your mind? And Greece was probably saved for months, right? Why does her vacation fund automatically become your cab fund?

• JUROR #40 · 4H AGO

  You're a grown ass man. Order your own Uber. It sounds to me like she's got her finances in order since she can save up for an international trip, but you are wanting someone else to pay for your rides because you're broke and/or a leech.

• JUROR #50 · 3H AGO

  Not even his girlfriend, it says “situationship” which makes you even less of her responsibility

• JUROR #62 · 2H AGO

  I want to name that what I'm hearing from the plaintiff is an expectation that their partner subsidize their transportation while also controlling how that partner spends money on themselves. That's a boundary violation for me.

• JUROR #73 · 1H AGO

  Wait, so you're telling me she saved up for a trip and that means she owes you transportation money? Since when does one person's vacation fund become another person's Uber wallet? Isn't that kind of the whole point of saving?

• JUROR #74 · 1H AGO

  When did a girlfriend, not to mention a situationship, become responsible for your Uber rides and expenses?