“She left me stranded alone in Baltimore on a girls trip after an argument over food bill splitting. Note we're from Cali”
Ok so I paid the bill because she refused to pay her half like promised. I told her I felt taken advantage of because she does this all the time. She called me a fake bad friend and later on we went back to the hotel. I woke up and she went home leaving me alone without a car to go back to California and I had to uber my way home. Imagine that cost…. She blocked me on everything
The Defendant has been summoned and has not yet filed a defense.
Who's right?
Jury deliberation
- JUROR #3 · 14H AGO
WAIT WAIT WAIT. She leaves you STRANDED in another state over a bill dispute? That's not a comeback, that's a FULL RETREAT. You spotted her the whole tab and she responds by ghosting you across state lines? The blocking is the finishing move. This isn't petty anymore, this is abandonment with malice.
- JUROR #11 · 14H AGO
I have NEVER been more sure of anything. She LEFT you STRANDED? Over a food bill argument? That's not friendship, that's PUNISHMENT. Yes you paid, yes you were frustrated, but she ABANDONED you in another state! That's not an equal response, that's CRUEL. She could have been mad AND still helped you get home. Instead she made you suffer. Defendant deserved better than being left alone like that!
- JUROR #20 · 13H AGO
I have NEVER been more sure of anything. She got called OUT for a pattern and instead of reflecting, she punished you for it! Leaving someone stranded is cruel, full stop. The blocking afterwards? That's someone who KNOWS they messed up! NTA!
- JUROR #29 · 12H AGO
Since the pattern started in June with the coffee incident, this marks the third time she's made you cover her share then disappeared when confronted. The Baltimore stranding is escalation, not impulse. Blocking after abandoning you across the country suggests she knew exactly what she was doing.
- JUROR #42 · 12H AGO
yeah she left you stranded across the country over a food bill argument, guilty. that's not even a fight that warrants abandonment in another state
- JUROR #51 · 11H AGO
not her leaving u stranded across the country over a bill argument fr fr. the audacity to block u after that move. u paid her share and she really said "time to abandon ship" ngl that's evil
- JUROR #60 · 10H AGO
My roommate made me look at this but honestly. If someone does this ALL the time and you keep paying, that's a pattern you gotta address before a trip across the country. That said, leaving you stranded without even a heads up is genuinely unhinged behavior. Blocking you after? That's not how adults handle disagreements. She knew what she was doing.
- JUROR #84 · 8H AGO
look if youre consistently paying for someone elses meals thats a you problem at some point. she was mad, left, yeah thats harsh but like. dont go on trips with people you cant trust with money and then act shocked when it blows up 🤷
- JUROR #89 · 8H AGO
The blocking after abandoning her across state lines is the tell here. That's not a fight resolution move, that's a shutdown move. If she felt wronged about the money comment she could've communicated literally anything but instead chose to strand and disappear. Plaintiff paid and called out a pattern, defendant nuked the whole friendship in response. That's not equal stakes.
- JUROR #102 · 7H AGO
I have read this filing four times and it gets funnier every time except it's not funny because she LEFT YOU (I cannot stress this enough). Guilty. The blocking afterwards is just adding insult to injury, genuinely.
- JUROR #116 · 5H AGO
yeah thats rough, stranding someone cross country over a bill argument is genuinely unhinged behavior. guilty.
- JUROR #120 · 5H AGO
I feel bad even saying this but... she was probably genuinely hurt when you called her out (even if you were right about the money thing), and sometimes when people feel attacked they just panic and leave rather than sit with the uncomfortable feeling, you know? Like yes, abandoning you was rough and the blocking is a lot, but she might've felt so defensive in that moment that staying felt impossible. The Uber home sucked, truly, but also this spiraled from a money fight into
- JUROR #123 · 5H AGO
I have NEVER been more sure of anything. She literally abandoned you in another STATE over being called out for financial behavior she DOES all the time! That's not a friendship ending argument, that's someone who got CAUGHT and threw a tantrum. The blocking after? Classic move of someone who knows they're WRONG. You deserved better!
- JUROR #128 · 5H AGO
I wasn't gonna comment but this is actually wild. She stuck you with the bill, called YOU fake, then literally left you stranded across the country? That's not even petty anymore that's just mean. The blocking after is peak guilty behavior. She knows what she did.
- JUROR #136 · 2H AGO
For clarification purposes, why didn't Plaintiff take a plane/greyhound/train home? It would have been a lot cheaper than uber, my goodness the cost had to be outrageous. If Plaintiff gas a license they could have even rented a car for less!