“My ex never called me living two cities apart in our text only rls and said he was unwanted in the end then i ended it.”
I don't care that he never called me and I allowed the imbalance of emotional heavy lifting in the relationship because I wanted him. So we were on I love you texts and talking about our days together and then we finally made plans to meet up. It was a Kohl's and ulta Beauty next to each other. We stopped in ulta first and he was aimlessly looking around at products I know he wasn't interested in, and I copied that awkward behavior to try and mirror him... he was trying to make talk but it comes naturally when it's time. He was nervous too i think becuase he expects dates to be more performative like on TV but i don't know the truth cause he kept it in. I feel like I was very nervous acting but I signified i wanted him. And it was true I hugged my pillow at night and all. Made plans in my head for a future together. At the end of it I accidentally took his charger since I was holding it and I texted him and he was like it's fine ily. Then he ghosted me for days. I texted and asked what thr switch up was about. He said he felt unwanted. Mind you he never called me. Or told me these feelings but he wanted to keep me there, just with this sudden shift in efforts. I ended it over text.
The Defendant has been summoned and has not yet filed a defense.
An explanation to why he wanted to keep me around as his "lover" when he only sent dry texts in response and just gave up on the whole thing
Who's right?
Jury deliberation
- THE PLAINTIFF · 2H AGO
I'm the plaintiff and I wanna clarify, I ran from that relationship and left him blocked with no warning. I don't feel what I did was right but I had to protect my peace. In the IG photos I was cut out of the frame and it isnt because of that I feel this way but I know there was never room for me in the picture. I am not distressed but adding additional context
- THE PLAINTIFF · 2H AGO
This is my first time in a relationship and my way of explaining this may not fully explain how this went down but I tried my best... up until I didn't. I think I am wrong too. Again, this is not me looking for support. This is my honest opinion
- THE PLAINTIFF · 1H AGO
I feel like I broke any peace we had with me coming on here talking my shit but I also know it was necessary. Enough context. If yall have any questions leave them here. I want the defendant to speak his side so we can get an equal resolution.
- THE PLAINTIFF · 1H AGO
He ain't gonna say shit prolly and thats fine.. peace and love over here.
- JUROR #20 · 1H AGO
this is somewhat correct!we did go to kohls and ulta but i was not just "aimlessly" looking at products. i was showing you what i actually liked because they were wicked themed lol! i never said i love you after the whole thing because i was hurt at the fact that you didn't engage in any conversations. i'm not gonna talk shit but i have all of the screenshots/screen recordings
- JUROR #20 · 1H AGO
mind you we were never dating!
- THE PLAINTIFF · 1H AGO
Then what do you call that LMFAO
- THE PLAINTIFF · 1H AGO
Do you just tell people that you aren't dating how attractive they are like okay messy
- JUROR #20 · 1H AGO
you never asked me out? i never got any official confirmation that we were dating lol. do some self searching and clear this immaturity.
- JUROR #40 · 50M AGO
How long were you guys together ?
- JUROR #20 · 16M AGO
WE WERE NEVER TOGETHER...
- JUROR #64 · 5M AGO
Wait, so you're upset he didn't call during a long distance thing where you literally set the terms? And then you're analyzing his Ulta browsing habits like that means something? Isn't that the whole vibe of meeting someone in person for the first time, just wandering around and seeing what happens? Why are we supposed to read his body language at a beauty counter as evidence of anything?