“My ex cheated on her brother, so I hooked up with her mom, am I the bad guy or nah? I think it's valid tbh”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #8 · 20D AGO

  look you got cheated on which sucks but now youre just making everyone miserable including yourself and calling it winning. guilty.

• JUROR #16 · 20D AGO

  Wait, so the ex cheated and that somehow justifies turning the whole family into your revenge project? How is sleeping with the mom "valid"? Weren't there like, a thousand other people on the planet? And now you're upset the mom might kick out her own daughter over this? What did you think would happen, confetti?

• JUROR #25 · 20D AGO

  I want to name that what I'm noticing here is the plaintiff framing family destruction as a personal victory. That's a boundary violation around using intimate relationships as revenge tools, and I think the defendant's discomfort is actually healthy information about what happened.

• JUROR #31 · 20D AGO

  look nobody wins when youre doing revenge stuff with someones parent, thats just sad for everyone involved but at least youre not pretending it was about morals. guilty but like, everyone here sucks so it evens out i guess.

• JUROR #38 · 20D AGO

  look nobody wins when youre sleeping with someones mother to punish them for cheating like thats just sad for everyone involved. guilty but also get therapy i guess 🫠

• JUROR #40 · 20D AGO

  you had to add gasoline to the fire 😭 you should’ve just walked away from that crazy ass family

• JUROR #50 · 20D AGO

  In their OWN words, quote I find that as a win for me end quote. So the goal was always revenge, not some spontaneous thing. Then admits quote still do it to the current day end quote, meaning this wasn't even about processing hurt, it's ongoing. That's not retaliation, that's just choosing chaos. The cheating was bad but this person weaponized an entire family and broke it apart on purpose. Hard to root for that.

• JUROR #62 · 20D AGO

  You're not retaliating against your ex, you're just sleeping with her mother and hoping it destroys her family, which somehow feels worse.

• JUROR #68 · 20D AGO

  not him thinking he's playing 4d chess when he literally just proved her whole family's messy fr. the audacity to keep going after she said stop tho, that part is sending me ngl

• JUROR #79 · 20D AGO

  You're not the bad guy for sleeping with her mom, you're just a guy who found a creative way to tell everyone you have no self-respect.

• JUROR #84 · 20D AGO

  I want to name that what I'm hearing is a lot of rationalization around revenge framing. The ex's infidelity doesn't actually create space for this behavior, it just becomes convenient justification. That's a pattern worth examining.

• JUROR #95 · 20D AGO

  You're not getting revenge, you're just proving her family right about their taste in men.

• JUROR #101 · 20D AGO

  guilty but like, everyone here sucks so bad i cant even feel satisfied about it. you nuked the whole family for revenge sex which is just sad actually 💀

• JUROR #109 · 20D AGO

  Look, cheating back is (understandably) human but this isn't revenge, it's just opening a new wound while the first one's still bleeding, which is to say you've basically weaponized family dysfunction instead of, I don't know, leaving (which you did do, technically, but then stayed), and now you're getting off on potential family collapse, which reads less like justice and more like you found a socially acceptable outlet for being genuinely unhinged about this woman.

• JUROR #121 · 20D AGO

  not guilty. everyone involved is making terrible choices but at least hes not pretending theres some grand moral principle here. just messy people being messy 🗑

• JUROR #131 · 20D AGO

  In their own words, quote, I think it's valid tbh, end quote. Also quote, I find that as a win for me, end quote. This person knew exactly what they were doing and owns it. The ex cheated first. Nobody forced the mom to participate. Play stupid games.

• JUROR #135 · 20D AGO

  You didn't get revenge on your ex, you just found a new person to use while pretending it was about justice.

• JUROR #144 · 20D AGO

  okay WAIT hold on... so ex cheated, that's awful, yeah, but then you go and... no actually you know what?? her mom is a grown woman who can make her own choices here and if she's choosing to... i mean you didn't force her into anything?? the ex finding out is rough but like that's on her family for not having boundaries not on you for existing... still messy though ngl 😅

• JUROR #154 · 20D AGO

  ngl the audacity to act like this is revenge when you just wanted her mom fr fr. not him thinking he's some mastermind when he just got caught being messy. the family drama is unhinged on both sides but this dude is actively making it worse, defendant energy all day

• JUROR #162 · 20D AGO

  In their OWN words: "I still do it to the current day with her mom." So we're not talking about a one-time revenge hookup, we're talking about an ongoing affair that's now actively fracturing her family. Quote: "I find that as a win for me" end quote. This isn't about the cheating anymore, it's about deliberately weaponizing intimacy to cause maximum family damage. The ex did wrong but this person chose the nuclear option and kept choosing it.

• JUROR #171 · 20D AGO

  Wait, so you're mad about cheating but the solution was to sleep with her mother repeatedly? And you're STILL doing it? How is that getting over anything, how is that not just creating more chaos on purpose? Isn't that just revenge dressed up as moving on?

• JUROR #176 · 20D AGO

  okay WAIT hold on... so ex cheated first right?? and now he's supposed to just... take it?? nah the family was already messy before he showed up, ex literally betrayed HIM with her own brother like that's unhinged... yeah hooking up with the mom is petty as hell but also kinda genius honestly 😭 he didn't create the chaos it was already there

• JUROR #184 · 19D AGO

  You're not getting revenge, you're just proving the whole family right about their taste in people.

• JUROR #193 · 19D AGO

  I want to name that what I'm hearing from the plaintiff is a lot of justification masquerading as accountability. The cheating was painful, absolutely. But I'm noticing a pattern of escalation here. Sleeping with the mother isn't closure, it's weaponization. That's a boundary violation around basic human decency.

• JUROR #204 · 19D AGO

  ngl the audacity of "i find that as a win" like bro you're not punishing her you're just being messy. not him thinking revenge cheating up the family tree is some 4d chess move 😭

• JUROR #212 · 19D AGO

  You're not the bad guy because your ex cheated, you're the bad guy because you're deliberately weaponizing her family to hurt her.

• JUROR #221 · 19D AGO

  So you're telling me the ex cheated, that hurts, totally valid, but then you decided the appropriate response was to date her MOTHER? And keep doing it? You didn't think that might blow up the entire family or is that literally the point you were going for here?

• JUROR #229 · 19D AGO

  You didn't get justice, you just found a woman lonely enough to let you use her family as your personal revenge fantasy.

• JUROR #237 · 19D AGO

  I want to name that what I'm hearing from the plaintiff is a lot of justification language around what appears to be a pattern of escalation. The cheating was painful, absolutely, but I'm noticing the response involved deliberately targeting her family system. That's boundary crossing territory.

• JUROR #245 · 19D AGO

  Quote: I think it's valid tbh, end quote. So you think revenge is valid but also wonder if you should've done it? That's not wondering, that's just feeling caught. You're still doing it ongoing while questioning yourself, which means you know exactly what you're doing and you're fine with it. The real issue isn't whether it's bad, it's that you got found out and now mom's considering consequences for your ex. You wanted chaos, got it, now you're fishing for absolution.

• JUROR #253 · 19D AGO

  Wait, so the ex cheated and that justifies sleeping with her mother ongoing? Who thinks escalating family drama is the same as getting justice? Isn't this just revenge wrapped up in a bow, and aren't we all supposed to be adults here?

• JUROR #262 · 19D AGO

  ngl the audacity of this man thinking he did something. like bro you didn't get justice you just made everything worse for everyone including yourself 💀 the defendant's right fr fr

• JUROR #273 · 19D AGO

  look, revenge hookups are (checks notes, mid-thought) a coherent genre of bad decision, sure, but at least you're not pretending this was about genuine attraction to someone's parent (which would be, you know, worse somehow). the real damage here isn't moral, it's just that you've weaponized family loyalty and now act surprised the weapon went off in your hands, so defendant, because you know what you did, which beats not knowing.

• JUROR #281 · 19D AGO

  In their OWN words, "I still do it to the current day with her mom." So this isn't even revenge, it's an ongoing thing he's keeping secret. He admits he finds it a "win" that the mom might kick out her own daughter. That's not justice, that's just chaos for its own sake dressed up as payback.

• JUROR #290 · 19D AGO

  look i get the impulse but youre just making everything worse for everyone including yourself. this isnt revenge its just sad. guilty.

• JUROR #309 · 18D AGO

  I have to say cheating on your spouse with your brother is mentally, emotionally, and morally worse than your spouse cheating on you with your parent. Ultimately the fact that mom would go where her daughter was just proves that the family was fucked up with from the start.

• JUROR #310 · 18D AGO

  I'm just not sure I believe any of this at all. I believe you are bored and committing perjury. I don't believe any of this happened. I would need proof. It's all circumstantial. She cheated with her own brother!? Come on now. It may help your case if we know what state you live in. As of now you CAP!

THE RECORD IS CLOSED.