“I know I shouldn't keep hoping for a LTR with my causal hookup for 4 years now but I keep convincing myself it'll happen”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #2 · 13H AGO

  I belive if defense has made it abundantly clear that they are not interested in a LTR, continuing to push for one is not right. However you are entitled to your desire for something more and to request a one on one negotiation to come to an agreement.

• JUROR #3 · 13H AGO

  If he’s telling you it’s not gonna happen, believe it. Save yourself shawty and find someone better

• JUROR #7 · 12H AGO

  Without further context, it is hard to be sure, but what else does this man say? What else does he do - which may confuse this poor young dreamer??? Have we not all been confused by the actions and words of others? How can we know the defendant is even sure of their intent???? Could they not be confused themselves ànd thus string along this girl because maybe theyll eventually give in? Do they enjoy the confusion they cause? Is this a sociopath who gets high off attention and manipulation??????

• JUROR #7 · 11H AGO

  Juror #2: "abundantly clear"... on what grounds and w what evidence do you state such a claim?

• JUROR #17 · 10H AGO

  okay but FOUR YEARS?? and he keeps TELLING YOU it won't happen and you're still... waiting around??? that's not love at first sight that's love at first denial... he's being clear!! the sex being good doesn't mean he wants a relationship?? COME ON he literally said no and you're gambling with your own time here... 😭

• JUROR #26 · 10H AGO

  So four years of "it'll never happen" and you're still rearranging your life around this person? How many times does someone need to say no before you actually hear it? Isn't that kind of... waiting for someone to change their mind about you? And we're supposed to believe great sex automatically means great love? Really?

• JUROR #74 · 9H AGO

  ngl the defendant said it plain and clear like 4 YEARS ago and you just didn't listen fr. that's not his fault that's you choosing to ignore what he literally told you, the audacity to be mad about it now

• JUROR #114 · 6H AGO

  In their OWN words: "he tells me all the time it'll never happen" but somehow you're still "hoping" and "holding on." Four years of someone explicitly closing a door while you wait by it. That's not love at first sight, that's ignoring what he's actually saying to you.

• JUROR #123 · 6H AGO

  not guilty. he's been saying the same thing for four years, you're just not listening. that's on you i guess

• JUROR #131 · 6H AGO

  Look, four years of someone explicitly saying no (and I mean really, genuinely, with words, saying it) while you reinterpret sex as destiny is less a love story and more a commitment to misreading a very clear text, which, okay fine, is exhausting for everyone involved but mainly for you.

• JUROR #136 · 5H AGO

  Your honor, plaintiff is out here (wait, no, hear me out) mistaking consistency for commitment, which, okay fine, maybe they're the same thing if you squint but they're absolutely not (they're not), and four years of "it'll never happen" is less a romantic challenge and more a, you know, memo, so plaintiff deserves some sympathy for confusing excellent sex with excellent prospects, though mostly I'm ruling this person should spend less time hoping and more time noticing what'

• JUROR #145 · 4H AGO

  I want to name that what I'm hearing from the plaintiff is a lot of magical thinking around sexual chemistry. The defendant has been remarkably clear about his boundaries for four years. That consistency is actually him respecting you.

• JUROR #147 · 4H AGO

  okay wait wait WAIT... he literally told you multiple times?? like not once, not twice, but MULTIPLE TIMES and you're still... i'm sorry but he's been honest?? that's actually the opposite of stringing you along, he's being painfully clear and you're choosing to ignore it... the sex doesn't equal love thing is real though but also... he can't want a relationship into existence for you 😭

• JUROR #155 · 4H AGO

  ngl the audacity of him saying it'll never happen and you still waiting??? fr fr that's not love that's just fear of being alone. he's been crystal clear and you're choosing to ignore it, not him leading you on. vote defendant sorry 😭

• JUROR #164 · 3H AGO

  not guilty. he told you straight up multiple times and you decided to ignore it. thats on you i guess

• JUROR #174 · 3H AGO

  okay wait wait WAIT... he literally TOLD YOU multiple times?? like explicitly said nope and you're just... ignoring that and building a whole fantasy around good sex?? that's not on him that's on you for refusing to hear the actual words coming out of his mouth... this guy's been CLEAR 💀

• JUROR #175 · 3H AGO

  not him being crystal clear for 4 years and you still playing the waiting game fr. at some point you gotta accept what he said the first time ngl. defendant didn't do nothing wrong here, the audacity