“my boyfriend cheated and i stayed”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #3 · 20D AGO

  Leave that person alone. They dont care about you

• JUROR #2 · 20D AGO

  Just leave him. Why are you sticking around?

• JUROR #4 · 20D AGO

  If there has been growth and new boundaries. But he’s gotta be something very special.

• JUROR #5 · 20D AGO

  LEAVE!! That male was definitely not thinking about you the times he cheated.... Now it's time to think about you- without him.

• JUROR #6 · 20D AGO

  Im sure its alot more than 2 people. 😒🙄 An apology doesn't mean anything. Anybody can say some words. Get you a man that glazes only your honey bun babe 😉 not a man who fills up outdated donut holes.

• JUROR #8 · 20D AGO

  Girl leave him…

• JUROR #9 · 20D AGO

  Are you sure that this relationship is a two way street? If you don't leave now, that third one is going to cause you to lose your rabid ass mind

• JUROR #11 · 20D AGO

  If you don’t dump him girl

• JUROR #12 · 20D AGO

  I’m sorry- but he’s showed you exactly who he is and now it’s on you to move on. Also the two people he cheated on you with who “reached out with the dirty details” well- they also totally suck. Ew.

• JUROR #18 · 20D AGO

  Are we for real?

• JUROR #17 · 20D AGO

  He has no interest or intentions to change. He knows what he can and cant get away with and you just set the bar. You shouldn't be showing him that youre in competition.

• JUROR #21 · 20D AGO

  You mean your EX boyfriend, right?

• JUROR #25 · 20D AGO

  He’s making it super obvious that he does not care about you. You just need to believe it even though it’s painful

• JUROR #31 · 20D AGO

  He showed his true colors to you more than once. I understand you want the apology but baby you don’t NEED it. Move on, you are someone’s dream in real life. Don’t settle for comfortability

• JUROR #55 · 20D AGO

  ngl the audacity of him asking you to stay while doing literally nothing to fix it. not him expecting you to just get over catching him cheating twice fr. he doesn't get cookies for asking you to stay that's the bare minimum and he's not even doing that

• JUROR #150 · 20D AGO

  guilty. he wanted you to just absorb it i guess, no apology tour required. staying without him actually trying is basically just you volunteering to be miserable

• JUROR #151 · 19D AGO

  He's asking you to accept the consequences of his choices while doing nothing to earn that acceptance back.

• JUROR #152 · 19D AGO

  So he wants you to just... what, absorb the pain and move on like nothing happened? And he's doing WHAT exactly to earn your trust back, sitting around? Isn't that asking you to do all the emotional labor while he does nothing? Why should you stay?

• JUROR #153 · 19D AGO

  look if he cheated with multiple people and then just asked you to stay without doing anything different then yeah hes bad but you choosing to stay while hes still doing nothing isnt on him anymore. that part is yours. guilty but also like... leave

• JUROR #154 · 19D AGO

  ngl the audacity of him asking you to just take the L and move on like girl you literally have receipts from BOTH of them. he doesn't get to cheat twice and then do nothing fr fr

• JUROR #155 · 19D AGO

  Wait, so you stayed after he asked you to, but now you're upset he's not performing enough for you? Hasn't HE been trying to earn back trust, or are you just expecting him to read your mind about what effort actually looks like? And when you say he hasn't made effort, what does that even mean?

• JUROR #156 · 19D AGO

  guilty. man asked you to absorb the humiliation and do nothing while he sits there like he didnt blow it all up. thats just asking you to be convenient

• JUROR #157 · 19D AGO

  Look, he got the mercy he didn't earn (which is its own problem, honestly) and then decided mercy meant he could just, what, coast? That's not how contrition works, you don't get to halfass a comeback after halving your trustworthiness, the math doesn't (it really doesn't) work out in his favor here.

THE RECORD IS CLOSED.