“She broke up with me and kept me for 3 months sleeping in the same bed, texting another dude until I found out.”
She kept me around for 3 months sleeping in the same bed and told me she loved me while texting another dude. I stayed thinking I had a chance to still be with her and treated her amazing during the 3 months.
I broke up with you because you never met my needs in the last few months. I never told you that I was talking to someone after the break up because I didn't want to hurt your feelings and I felt stuck sleeping next to you. I told you I love you but it's not the same love that it was before. You started to do things for me after I broke up with you. Before that, you were always tired and out of it whenever you got home from work. I told you that I wanted no contact for a few days and I lied about where I was going so I wouldn't hurt your feelings because I wanted to sleep with someone else. All I wanted was to come back home from my no contact weekend and to not have to worry about you.
After breaking up, I wished I knew you were talking to someone immediately then I wouldn't be so hung up on this issue. Every night for 3 months you asked for cuddles and always asked me to do things for you and I always did. I provided as much as I could working 8 hours and driving 2 hours a day to come home and just to see you doom scrolling on your phone and when I ask about your day, you don't even do anything for most of the days, besides sleep until late afternoon. I took care of your dog during the time that you went no contact and that's when I figured out that you sneaked off to sleep with someone else and have been talking to someone else while sleeping next to me every night and asking to be cuddled.
FINAL · 178 VOTES
Jury deliberation
- JUROR #3 · 20D AGO
She for the streets bro
- JUROR #9 · 20D AGO
She broke up with you dude. You stayed because you wanted her to what? Go back on her decision? That’s on you.
- JUROR #16 · 20D AGO
Defendant owes plaintiff nothing. Plaintiff needs to do some self reflecting and ask themselves why the Defendant felt unsafe to be honest with him. Defendant needs to take her dog and cut all ties. From experience, situations like this never end up amicable. Be safe, Defendant.
- JUROR #22 · 20D AGO
Protect your heart. Plenty of fish in the sea
- JUROR #23 · 20D AGO
If you broke up with someone, why still sleep on the same bed? That's sending mixed messages. At least someone move to the couch or another room if the other person couldn't move out right away. It's just weird to be broken up, sleeping side by side, and cuddling, while you talk to other men. Throw the whole thing out and just go your separate ways. No winners here. But she was wrong for getting cuddles and making him think it wasn't a true break up.
- JUROR #34 · 20D AGO
Respectfully, she's for the streets. As for prior jurors asking why the defendant would feel "unsafe" to communicate openly with the plaintiff--many people feel unsafe to tell their waiter they get the wrong food... it doesn't imply any sort of abuse. She's leading you on. Move on
- JUROR #57 · 20D AGO
Yeah brother, this one should have been like a brick to the face obvious, that’s on you.
- JUROR #58 · 20D AGO
This is a difficult one. Morally, the defendant is guilty. However, more info is needed. Did the defendant have no where else to go, to live? The plaintiff should have demanded separate sleeping and separation. The heart is always hopeful. I’m going to rule for the Plaintiff, as once the defendant broke up with him, she should have vamoosed.
- JUROR #67 · 19D AGO
You just can’t be in a relationship and still be looking around. The ex should’ve just been honest and kicked rocks.. The plaintiff should hold his head high and keep on keeping on. As for the ex… exes are exes for a reason and this one def belongs in the streets! She wasn’t yours bro, you were just next in line…
- JUROR #85 · 19D AGO
That is just WRONG to use the plaintiff for whatever reason. I hope defendant moved out by now. I can't stand women using men and vice versa. Plaintiff, women have needs that need to be met that goes beyond s*xual. Just like men have needs too. Plaintiff, next relationship, you need to spend some quality time with your partner.
- JUROR #86 · 19D AGO
Yeah I believe the defendant. Men ain’t shit and I can tell from the narrative that he wasn’t a good partner.
- JUROR #87 · 19D AGO
So, she was just hoboromantic. She played the part because she was broke and had nowhere else to go. A point I’m assuming she realized when she ended things, or she wouldn’t have stuck around. Plaintiff stated that he was working full time while she played the part of stay at home doom scroller. Feel bad for the guys she was talking to because he was just her next place to crash while she found the next meal ticket. Ruling for the Plaintiff.
- JUROR #88 · 19D AGO
Rookie mistake! Next time listen when someone says they want to break up… it means they want to be with someone else, because they’ve already given room for improvement
- JUROR #96 · 19D AGO
I completely sympathize with the defendant, HOWEVER: I'm voting for the plaintiff. Defendant, you should have left the premises (or asked Plaintiff to leave if it was your home) ASAP after breaking up. Should've figured out living situation before breaking up. Ask friends and family if you can't afford a place. If you really had nowhere to go, literally nowhere, then I can understand, HOWEVER: Still should not have strung him along emotionally. Asking for cuddles and favors, etc. wasn't cool
- JUROR #105 · 19D AGO
Did the plaintiff know that they were broken up? Did they officially break up before things apparently got better and they were sleeping in the same bed. Every chance they had and he was watching her dog and cuddling with her every night was it just assumed that they broke up or did they have a little fight and she went off started sleeping with someone else immediately hiding it from him and giving excuses as to what she was really doing even when I asked directly?
- JUROR #105 · 19D AGO
Was it completely understood that you two were broken up three months before and he continued staying in your place? Was there any further talk in that three month? Period that led him to believe you were still together making future plans, etc..?
THE RECORD IS CLOSED.