“She broke up with me and kept me for 3 months sleeping in the same bed, texting another dude until I found out.”

She kept me around for 3 months sleeping in the same bed and told me she loved me while texting another dude. I stayed thinking I had a chance to still be with her and treated her amazing during the 3 months.

I broke up with you because you never met my needs in the last few months. I never told you that I was talking to someone after the break up because I didn't want to hurt your feelings and I felt stuck sleeping next to you. I told you I love you but it's not the same love that it was before. You started to do things for me after I broke up with you. Before that, you were always tired and out of it whenever you got home from work. I told you that I wanted no contact for a few days and I lied about where I was going so I wouldn't hurt your feelings because I wanted to sleep with someone else. All I wanted was to come back home from my no contact weekend and to not have to worry about you.

After breaking up, I wished I knew you were talking to someone immediately then I wouldn't be so hung up on this issue. Every night for 3 months you asked for cuddles and always asked me to do things for you and I always did. I provided as much as I could working 8 hours and driving 2 hours a day to come home and just to see you doom scrolling on your phone and when I ask about your day, you don't even do anything for most of the days, besides sleep until late afternoon. I took care of your dog during the time that you went no contact and that's when I figured out that you sneaked off to sleep with someone else and have been talking to someone else while sleeping next to me every night and asking to be cuddled.